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Overcoming Confusion in Spiritual Warfare

April 1, 2026 by Jenny

The Spiritual Battle Behind Confusion

Overcoming confusion in spiritual warfare is something many believers face but rarely understand. When life begins to feel chaotic, decisions feel unclear, and your thoughts seem scattered, it may not simply be stress or emotion. Scripture shows that confusion can often be part of a spiritual battle that targets the mind and heart.

The enemy often works through confusion because confusion weakens discernment and slows obedience. When the mind becomes clouded, it becomes harder to recognize truth.

Yet God is not the author of confusion. His presence brings clarity, peace, and direction.


Why Confusion Appears in Spiritual Warfare

Many believers assume that confusion means they have failed spiritually. In reality, confusion often arises when pressure, fear, and spiritual resistance collide at the same time.

Moments of chaos may come during:

  • major life transitions
  • emotional stress
  • spiritual growth
  • new obedience to God

These seasons can feel disorienting because they expose internal beliefs that have not yet been fully aligned with truth.


Overcoming Confusion in Spiritual Warfare Through Truth

Scripture reminds us that believers are not defenseless in these moments. God provides spiritual weapons designed specifically for spiritual battles.

Some of the most powerful include:

  • The Word of God – truth that cuts through lies
  • Prayer – realignment with God’s presence
  • Faith – trust that steadies the heart when circumstances feel unstable
  • The Holy Spirit’s guidance – quiet clarity that brings direction

These weapons do not remove every difficulty, but they restore clarity in the middle of confusion.


Renewing the Mind in the Middle of Chaos

One of the most important spiritual disciplines in times of confusion is renewing the mind with truth.

Romans 12:2 reminds believers that transformation happens when the mind is renewed. This means allowing Scripture and the Holy Spirit to reshape the beliefs that influence our reactions.

When truth replaces distortion, confusion begins to lose its power.


Choosing Faith When Emotions Feel Unsteady

Confusion often produces emotional instability. Fear rises. Doubt increases. Decisions feel heavy.

In these moments, faith becomes a stabilizing anchor.

Faith does not require perfect understanding. It requires trust in the character of God even when the path forward feels unclear.

As believers lean into faith rather than reacting to chaos, peace begins to return.


Walking in Clarity Again

The goal of spiritual warfare is not simply survival. God desires to bring His people into clarity, confidence, and steady faith.

As confusion lifts, believers often notice:

  • clearer discernment
  • calmer decision making
  • stronger trust in God’s voice
  • greater stability in difficult situations

Spiritual battles do not define the believer. They become opportunities for deeper growth and stronger faith.

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Dreaming With God Can Change Everything

March 17, 2026 by Jenny

Dreaming with God can change everything about the direction of your life. Five years ago, I never imagined that dreaming with God would take me from overwhelmed working mom to building a slower, more present life on land we had prayed for. Yet that is exactly what happened.

I want to tell you how it unfolded — because if God did it for us, He can lead you too.

“Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think…” – Ephesians 3:20 (NKJV)


What If You’re Allowed to Dream With God?

About five years ago, one question kept rising in my heart:

What if I’m allowed to dream?

Not in a reckless way. Not in a fantasy way. But what if I could actually sit with God and imagine the life He designed for our family?

At the time, my husband and I had just purchased what felt like a miracle property. I had written specific prayers inside my Bible: 25–35 acres, trees, water, under $250,000. It was a bold list. Still, after years of praying, every detail fell into place. We closed at the beginning of 2020.

However, even while standing on that land, grateful and stunned, my life felt stretched thin.


Dreaming With God in the Middle of Real Life

I was pregnant with our fourth son. I worked full time. I brought in a significant portion of our income. And honestly, I loved my job.

I loved being creative. I loved being with women. I loved building something meaningful.

Yet if you are a working mom, you understand the weight. You still manage the laundry. You coordinate childcare. You order the clothes. You carry the emotional load of the house — and the pressure of your career.

Then the world slowed down in early 2020.

Suddenly, I saw what a slower life could feel like. And I liked it.

As I began dreaming with God, I started imagining something different:

What if my husband and I stayed home together?
What if we raised our kids side by side?
What if we homeschooled together, tended animals, grew a garden, and did ministry from our own land?

The dream felt beautiful.

It also felt impossible.


Obeying When Dreaming With God Made No Financial Sense

There was no logical way for me to stop working. We had a mortgage. We had land. We had future building plans.

Still, I sensed God inviting me to step away from my job.

It did not feel bold. It felt terrifying.

I did not respond with, “This will all work out.”
Instead, I told God, “How are we going to make money? I am not good at being poor.”

Yet I obeyed.

And God handled my fear.

He did not shame my emotions. Instead, He met me in them.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart… and He shall direct your paths.” – Proverbs 3:5–6 (NKJV)

Dreaming with God required obedience before I saw provision.


A Surprise Provision We Never Planned

As I stepped away from work, I sketched simple rectangle floor plans. I wanted small. Manageable. Affordable.

Then my husband noticed the property next door was for sale.

It had:

  • A main house
  • A small salon inside the garage (I’m a hairdresser — what are the chances?)
  • Three rental houses generating income
  • 17 additional acres

At first, I dismissed it.

However, a client of mine — a former loan officer turned real estate agent — started asking questions. Did we have equity? Could the rental income support financing?

Because of equity in our current home and income from the rentals, we qualified.

We moved to the country sooner than we ever planned. Not only that, once everything settled, the rental income actually exceeded what we had been paying before.

God accelerated the dream.


Dreaming With God Requires Flexibility

We renovated rentals. Plans changed constantly.

One small house was going to become an Airbnb. Instead, a close friend moved in. Later, my grandparents decided to join us on the land. We shifted again.

Each adjustment felt inconvenient at first. Yet every change brought unexpected blessing.

Still, money ran tight.

We pulled equity from another property to finish the last rental. Even then, expenses exceeded income month after month. Farm equipment, repairs, remodeling — the costs added up.

Fear surfaced again.

But this was not our first time walking on financial water.

So I kept reminding myself:
God always comes through.

“For we walk by faith, not by sight.” – 2 Corinthians 5:7 (NKJV)

Dreaming with God does not eliminate fear. It teaches you how to walk through it.


Walking by Faith Is Not Comfortable

Let’s be honest.

When you step out in faith:

  • It does not feel safe.
  • It does not feel stable.
  • It does not feel impressive.

There were tears. There was complaining. There were long nights doing math in my head.

Yet we kept going.

And when I look back now, I see something clearly: the house I once sketched as a distant dream stood waiting next door the entire time.

We did not build it.

God provided it.

With acreage.

With income potential.

With space for family.


Rest Over Hustle: What Dreaming With God Taught Me

The world says hustle. Push harder. Grind more. Stay obsessed with income.

Yet dreaming with God taught me something different.

Rest requires trust.

When your nervous system relaxes, your body declares, “I believe I am cared for.”

I wish I had rested more during the journey. I wish I had worried less.

However, even in my imperfect faith, God remained steady.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it.” – Psalm 127:1 (NKJV)

Dreaming with God is not about chasing fantasy.
It is about partnering with Him.


What Dreaming With God Could Look Like for You

Maybe your dream is:

  • Working from home
  • Starting a small business
  • Changing careers
  • Creating margin for your children
  • Building something that reflects your values

If God releases you into it, move.

The release might not feel peaceful. Sometimes it feels scary. Still, keep your eyes on Him when the waves rise.

He will redirect you if needed.
He will provide.
He will not abandon you.


Dream With God About Your Life

Today, our life looks nothing like it did five years ago. It also looks nothing like I thought it would.

It looks better.

Not easier. Not without risk. But better.

Dreaming with God reshaped our direction, our finances, our family rhythms, and my own understanding of trust.

So here is my encouragement:

Get a pen. Sit with the Lord.
Ask Him what your life could look like.

What would you build if fear were not leading?

Dream with God.

He may take you somewhere you never could have imagined on your own.

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What If God’s Plan for Income Wasn’t Meant to Be This Hard?

March 12, 2026 by Jenny

What if God never intended His plan for income to feel this exhausting?

What if He never intended for you to live stressed, overwhelmed, and fearful about money?

Instead of constant pressure, what if His design was sustainable — and even enjoyable — because it aligned with how He created you?

Provision may not be blocked.
It may be waiting on trust.

Today, I want to share three ways income often shows up that many people overlook — and how you can begin partnering with God differently in your work and finances.


This Isn’t Laziness — It’s Exhaustion

Most people are not ungrateful or unwilling to work.

Rather, they are tired.

Tired of feeling stuck.
Tired of living under pressure.
Tired of trying and not seeing change.

Because of that exhaustion, people begin coping in ways that actually compound the problem — overspending, overworking, checking out, or settling.

Not because they lack discipline.

Instead, because they feel hopeless.

However, what if something could shift? What if, with God, you could step into how He actually wired you and build something sustainable instead of survival-based?


The Beliefs That Shape God’s Plan for Income

Before we talk about strategy, we need to examine belief.

After all, what you believe about wealth will quietly shape every financial decision you make.

Sometimes struggle feels spiritual. In fact, it can even feel humble. At times, it feels righteous to assume that wanting more is selfish.

However, is that what Scripture actually teaches?

When I began examining the biblical view of wealth, I realized some of my beliefs were shaped more by culture than by truth.

For example, Solomon’s wealth was given by God. If wealth automatically led to corruption, then why would God entrust it to him?

Likewise, the Proverbs 31 woman was buying land and selling goods while managing her household well. In other words, she was productive and engaged in commerce.

Clearly, God is not offended by income.

Instead, He is concerned with the condition of the heart.

That distinction changes everything.


When God’s Plan for Income Required $30,000 We Didn’t Have

When my husband and I were 25, we bought a 10,000 square foot building built in 1890. Although it needed work, we saw potential. Since no bank would finance it, the owner financed it instead — which already felt like a miracle.

Then the roof began to fail.

Suddenly, we needed $30,000.

And we did not have it.

As rain poured into the building, fear and anxiety followed. Because we had invested all our savings, every storm felt heavier.

Eventually, a government disaster declaration made us eligible for a small business loan. At first, it looked like the answer.

However, I felt unsettled.

So, after wrestling with it, I told God we would decline the loan and trust Him for another way. I did not feel bold. Instead, I felt scared.

Six months passed.

Then someone handed us a check for $28,000.

My husband insisted on tithing 20 percent, which left $21,000. After doing some of the demolition work ourselves, the final roofing cost came to exactly $21,000.

That experience reshaped how I see faith and finances.

More often than not, God’s provision is rarely early.

Instead, it is precise.


Why God’s Plan for Income Often Requires Risk

Peter never would have walked on water if he had stayed in the boat.

Similarly, staying safe can feel wise. However, sometimes safety is simply fear dressed up as responsibility.

At some point, trust must move from theory into action.

God’s plan for income may require stepping out of what feels predictable and into something that stretches you.

Of course, faith is not reckless.

Yet it is rarely comfortable.


How to Recognize God’s Plan for Income in Your Life

So where do you begin?

Most people already have the seeds of sustainable income in their life. The question is whether they have taken time to examine them.

Generally, those seeds appear in three places:

  • Talents
  • Interests
  • Resources

When these are partnered with strategy and faith, they can become sustainable income.


1. Your Talents and God’s Plan for Income

In the Old Testament, God anointed artisans with skill for beauty and craftsmanship.

If you are artistic, relational, organized, strategic, or mechanically inclined, those abilities are not accidental. Instead, they can serve others and generate income.

For example, an artist might create custom sentimental pieces. Likewise, someone skilled with people might thrive in real estate or client-based services.

Ultimately, the key question becomes: Who does this help?

In most cases, income follows service.


2. Your Interests Can Shape Income

Even if you do not see clear talent, you still have interests.

Cars. Gardening. Baking. Parenting. Organization. Fitness.

Chances are, you know more than someone else in that area. Because of that, there are always people willing to pay for solutions they do not want to handle themselves.

Over time, interests can become expertise.

And eventually, expertise can become income.


3. Your Resources Are Part of God’s Plan for Income

If you feel like you lack talent or interest, look at access instead.

Do you have space? Equipment? Tools? Relationships? Location?

Even something simple — like access to laundry equipment — can become a service business.

When you step back and look carefully, there is usually more potential than you initially realized.


Strategy Still Matters in God’s Plan for Income

However, faith does not replace strategy.

In every business I have built — from a salon to real estate — I learned that you must invest wisely.

Sometimes that means spending money to build systems that produce more income later.

Therefore, sustainable income is rarely accidental.

Instead, it is intentional.


You Don’t Have to Stay Stuck in God’s Plan for Income

If there is something you have quietly longed to build — a boutique, a service, or a creative venture — pay attention.

After all, that desire may not be random.

At the same time, God’s plan for income is not about hustle culture or obsession with money. Rather, it is about partnership.

In other words, it is about alignment.

You do not have to leap all at once. Instead, set measurable goals, take strategic steps, and invite God into the process.

Provision may not be blocked.

It may be waiting for your partnership.


If You’re Feeling Stuck Financially

God is not limited.

However, sometimes we are.

If you are feeling overwhelmed or stuck financially, ask yourself:

  • What beliefs are shaping my decisions?
  • What talents or interests have I overlooked?
  • Where might God be inviting me to trust Him differently?

You were not created for constant fear.

Instead, you were created for faith, wisdom, and sustainable fruit.

May you be blessed inside and out.

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Beginning of the Year Challenge for Working Christian Moms

January 1, 2026 by Jenny

The beginning of a new year carries a certain kind of weight for working moms. Hope, restlessness, longing, and fear often surface at once. Many of us feel the tension between wanting to be present with our children and still needing to contribute financially. At the same time, we want a life that feels aligned with our values, our faith, and our families. However, we are not always sure how to move toward that life without risking everything.

That is exactly why I created the Beginning of the Year Challenge.

This Beginning of the Year Challenge is not about quitting your job overnight. It is not about blind leaps, pressure, or hustle. Instead, it is about learning how to dream with God and then take practical, faithful steps forward.

Scripture is full of moments where God calls people into something new. Yet rarely does He demand that they abandon wisdom, preparation, or process. Faith and planning are not opposites. Rather, they work together.

So many women feel like the only options are staying stuck or jumping out of the boat and hoping to walk on water. However, most real transformation happens in the middle. It unfolds through clarity, small steps, obedience, and consistency.

What the Beginning of the Year Challenge Helps You Do

The Beginning of the Year Challenge is designed to help you slow down and look honestly at your life — not with shame, but with truth.

First, we acknowledge your current reality:
Your job.
Your schedule.
Your finances.
Your energy.
Your children.

God already knows your situation. Therefore, you do not need to minimize it or rush past it.

From there, we make space to dream. Not fantasy dreaming, but grounded, faith-filled dreaming.

What would your days look like if they felt more peaceful?
What kind of work could support your family without pulling you away from them?
What gifts and skills has God already placed in your hands that feel ordinary to you?

Building Toward Freedom Instead of Escaping

This challenge walks you through identifying your talents, your interests, and your resources. Not to overwhelm you with options, but to help you see realistic paths forward.

In fact, many women already have what they need to begin. They simply lack clarity or confidence.

One of the most important parts of the Beginning of the Year Challenge is learning how to set goals without going all or nothing.

We do not burn bridges. Instead, we build stepping stones.

That means setting income goals, client goals, and marketing goals that make sense for your season. It also means allowing your business idea to grow while you are still employed. Stability and faith can coexist.

Rather than demanding immediate freedom, we build toward it.

We test ideas before making big decisions.
We reach milestones, then reassess.
Then we move forward again.

This is not a lack of faith. It is stewardship.

Steps, Not Exits

Throughout the Beginning of the Year Challenge, I encourage you to think in terms of steps rather than exits.

What would it look like to replace a portion of your income first?
What would it feel like to gain confidence before making a major transition?
How might things shift if you trusted that God is patient and not rushing you?

Because He is not hurried.

This challenge is not a business course. Instead, it is a reset. A place to breathe. A place to listen. A place to create a plan that honors both your responsibilities and your desires.

If you are a working Christian mom who wants to be home more, contribute financially, and move forward with wisdom instead of fear, this Beginning of the Year Challenge was created for you.

You do not have to jump out of the boat today. Instead, you can step toward the shore, one intentional step at a time, trusting that God is present in both the dreaming and the doing.

That is what the Beginning of the Year Challenge is about.

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Working Homemaker: The Missing Middle for Christian Moms

December 30, 2025 by Jenny

There is a quiet tension many mothers carry. For many, it shows up in the car rides to work, in the lump in your throat at drop-off, or in the prayer you whisper asking God if there might be another way. Often, this tension is what leads women to explore becoming a working homemaker.

You do want to work. You also value being home. Yet somewhere along the way, someone implied you had to choose.

Choose between being present or providing.
Choose between nurturing your home or contributing financially.
Choose between faithfulness to your family or responsibility to your finances.

For many Christian mothers, that choice never felt right. However, we did not always have language for why.

The Working Homemaker and the Missing Middle

Modern life presents two loud extremes. On one hand, full-time work outside the home is framed as the responsible path. It offers structure, income, and security. However, it often brings exhaustion, divided attention, and the feeling that real life begins after bedtime.

On the other hand, staying home completely is often described as the faithful choice. It promises presence and slower days. Yet it can also create financial strain, loss of autonomy, or quiet anxiety about provision.

Both options sound confident. Scripture, however, speaks differently.

Again and again, the Bible shows people living faithfully in the in-between — working, building, cultivating, and providing while remaining rooted in their households and communities. That space is what I call the missing middle. For many mothers, it looks like becoming a working homemaker.

What Is a Working Homemaker?

A working homemaker is not a woman trying to do everything. She is not hustling, proving, or stretching herself thin. Instead, she centers her life around the home and builds work that bends around her season, her family, and her responsibilities.

That work might be done from home or nearby. It might be small or seasonal. Often, it grows slowly and intentionally.

Homemaking is not something she squeezes in after everything else is done. Rather, it forms the foundation everything else rests on. This is not about quitting overnight. It is about transitioning wisely.

Biblical Roots of the Working Homemaker

This way of living is not new. Scripture has long honored women whose work flowed out of their homes rather than pulling them away.

Proverbs 31 is often presented as an impossible standard. However, when you read it carefully, you see something different. You see a woman whose economic life is woven into her household. She considers a field and buys it. With the fruit of her hands, she plants a vineyard.

Her work is real. Her provision matters. Yet her household remains central, not secondary.

The Bible also speaks clearly about provision. First Timothy reminds us that providing for one’s household matters deeply. Presence does not replace provision, and provision does not excuse absence. Likewise, Proverbs shows how wisdom and kindness grow inside the home.

Scripture does not pit work against homemaking. Instead, it calls us to steward both together.

Alignment Over Extremes

Many mothers today are not chasing ambition. Instead, they crave alignment.

Many want to be home more, not because they lack drive, but because they understand the value of presence. At the same time, contributing financially still matters because daily bread matters.

When Jesus taught us to pray for our daily bread, He invited both trust and participation. We trust God to provide. Then we steward what He places in our hands.

The working homemaker path honors seasons, limits, and faithfulness over speed. Ecclesiastes reminds us that there is a season for everything. Therefore, wisdom looks different in different stages of life.

Building Slowly and Wisely

Most mothers do not lack ideas. What they often lack is space to think, language to name what they are feeling, permission to build slowly, and guidance to discern what they could realistically offer.

Culture often presents only two options: quit everything or push harder. Yet Scripture consistently invites us into discernment. Psalm 90 asks God to teach us to number our days so that we may gain a heart of wisdom.

Wisdom rarely rushes.

Becoming a working homemaker usually unfolds over time. First comes prayer and honest dreaming. Then comes evaluating skills and resources. After that, gentle testing and reshaping rhythms begin to take shape.

Jesus spoke plainly about building this way when He said that anyone who wants to build should first sit down and count the cost. Counting the cost is not fear. It reflects faithfulness.

If You Are Standing in the Middle

Right now, many mothers stand in the middle. They keep working. They keep showing up. They remain faithful. Yet quietly, they wonder if there might be another way.

Perhaps there is a way that honors faith, family, provision, and peace together.

This season may invite you to dream with God, discern what you could build, and begin a transition that feels grounded and wise. Not fast. Not flashy. But faithful.

If you feel pulled in opposite directions — wanting to be home more while still needing to provide — you are not failing. You may simply be standing in the missing middle.

And that middle is not weakness. It may be the very place where God builds something steady and good.

If this resonates with you, you are not alone. This space exists to help working mothers become working homemakers, one thoughtful step at a time.

Find your rhythm.

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